Nipping Biting
Posted on August 29th, 2006 in Sarah | No Comments »
A friend called me today because her angelic soon-to-be two year old was suddenly misbehaving.
“Daughter? What daughter? No… my daughter doesn’t bite. We can’t be talking about the same person here…”
You see, I, too, have a little biter in this age range. His nickname is “Micah Destroyer” because, while gleefully laughing, he can literally tear a room apart in a matter of moments. His favorite pastimes include putting non-food items in the microwave and hitting buttons until they begin to cook, as well as sneaking into the pantry and emptying the water cooler (while saying “DRINK!”). Sometimes he’ll combine the two activities by starting the microwave and then retreating to the pantry. One never knows what they will find when things have been “just a little too quiet.”
Here are some thoughts on toddlers’ tendency to bite - I hope they stir some ideas and offer encouragement to those parenting biters
Understanding the problem:
First, hurting others isn’t acceptable even if there’s a reason behind why they’re doing it. This is the time in their life when toddlers are testing boundaries and are learning what they can and cannot do. As parents, our goal is to teach them the right way to handle their frustration. Just keep reminding yourself: “They are learning and it’s going to take some time.”
While bearing this in mind, working to understand why a toddler bites and identifying the triggers help parents to prevent the biting from occuring. Read the rest of this entry »

